The Metric That Outlasts the Market: Why Caring Is Still Your Strongest Advantage

"The best marketing strategy ever: CARE." — Gary Vaynerchuk

It sounds simple. Almost too simple. But if you look across the modern business landscape, true, unvarnished care has become one of the rarest competitive advantages in business.

Most organizations dont start out cynical. On day one, founders and teams are fuelled by a clear mission: solving a real problem for real people. But as revenue grows, boards expand, and quarterly targets tighten, a subtle shift happens. The focus drifts from serving people to chasing numbers and quotas.

When numbers replace purpose as the primary driver, the soul of a brand slowly erodes—and the market notices.

Real-World Case Studies: Caring vs. Chasing Metrics

To understand how powerful Gary Vs core message is, compare how different brands approach their mission as they scale:

Case 1: Patagonia — Sacrificing Short-Term Sales for Long-Term Trust

In 2011, outdoor apparel brand Patagonia ran a famous full-page Black Friday ad in The New York Times with a bold headline: Don't Buy This Jacket. The campaign urged consumers to repair what they already owned or buy secondhand rather than needlessly consuming more.

While conventional marketing logic suggested this would kill sales, the opposite happened: Patagonia’s revenue grew by double digits over the following years. By proving they cared more about their core mission: environmental sustainability, than driving a single weekend’s sales metrics, they built bulletproof brand equity. Fast-forward to today: Patagonia holds legendary customer loyalty and a multi-billion-dollar market presence while keeping purpose strictly at its center.

Case 2: Zappos — Prioritizing Customer Care Over Call Center Efficiency

Most retail call centers operate on strict efficiency metrics: short call handling times, rapid scripting, and minimal cost-per-ticket. When Tony Hsieh built Zappos, he flipped that metric entirely on its head, treating customer support not as an operational expense, but as their primary marketing budget.

Zappos famously gave representatives full freedom to spend hours on the phone with customers, send free flowers during tough times, and handle returns without red tape. They traded operational efficiency metrics for authentic care. The result? Millions in word-of-mouth marketing, industry-leading repeat customer rates, and a $1.2 billion acquisition by Amazon.

Counter-Case: The Trap of Transactional Drift

On the flip side, we see countless brands across retail, SaaS, and agency spaces start strong with high customer satisfaction, only to hit a wall when private equity or public quarterly demands take over. When support budgets get slashed, ad spend goes strictly into aggressive retargeting ads, and customer service turns into automated endless loops, churn skyrockets. Acquiring a new customer suddenly costs 5x to 7x more than retaining an existing one, trapping the business on an expensive, unsustainable growth treadmill.

The Domino Effect of Mission Drift

When an organization replaces its founding mission with short-term quarterly targets, the breakdown happens across three critical fronts:

Marketing becomes transaction-focused, not relational: Instead of educating, helping, or connecting, your messaging devolves into aggressive sales pitches, clickbait, and endless discount cycles. Customers quickly realize they are treated as data points on a spreadsheet rather than human beings.

Brand equity degrades: Competitors can easily copy your product features, pricing, and advertising campaigns. What they cannot copy is deep-rooted customer trust. When you stop caring, your brand becomes a commodity overnight.

Internal culture fractures: Great employees dont wake up inspired to hit an arbitrary CAC (Customer Acquisition Cost) metric; they show up to make a meaningful impact. When leadership trades mission for metrics, top talent leaves, and burnout settles in.

How Mission Drift Kills Longevity

Chasing short-term metrics can spike revenue temporarily, but it acts like high-interest debt against your brand’s future.

Long-term market survival relies on retention, advocacy, and organic trust. When customers feel cared for, they become vocal champions. When they feel commoditized, they churn the moment a cheaper or shiny alternative comes along.

Organizations that lose their mission end up trapped spending continuously higher acquisition costs just to replace the audience they failed to retain.

3 Ways to Keep Your Organization Anchored to Its Mission

Staying true to your core purpose while scaling requires intentional design across three areas:

1. In Your Marketing: Tell Impact Stories, Not Just Product Specs

Shift your marketing metrics from purely transactional KPIs to relational indicators. Measure customer sentiment, advocacy, and lifetime value alongside immediate conversion rates. Frame content around how your solutions transform lives, and build transparent feedback loops directly into your public channels.

2. In Your Culture: Align Incentives with Mission Outcomes

If your support or sales teams are rewarded only for volume or ticket closure speed, they will optimize for speed—not service. Reward employees who go out of their way to solve hard customer problems. Build cultural rituals that celebrate client wins as internal victories.

3. In Your Business Strategy: Define Your Non-NegotiablesEstablish clear boundaries on what your organization will not do for a quick profit. Whether that means refusing to compromise on product quality, avoiding high-pressure sales tactics, or prioritizing ethical sourcing, your boundaries communicate your real values far louder than a mission statement on a wall.

The Bottom Line

Growth and mission are not mutually exclusive—in fact, mission is what makes growth sustainable. When you align your team, your culture, and your customer experience around authentic care, marketing stops feeling like a forced pull and starts acting as an organic magnet.

Trust Is the New Currency: Why Value Beats Vanity Metrics Every Time

Trust is truly the new currency.

If you look at the average digital marketing dashboard, you’ll see an endless array of metrics: impressions, click-through rates, likes, shares, and engagement percentages. While these data points are helpful for tracking reach, they often distract from the single most important asset any modern organization can possess: Trust.

A click is temporary. A "like" takes half a second. But trust? Trust is what turns a casual website visitor into a lifelong customer, an employee into a brand advocate, and a business relationship into an enduring partnership.

The brands that will dominate over the next decade aren't the ones chasing algorithm spikes. They are the brands that consistently deliver value and earn the trust of every group they interact with—prospects, constituents, employees, vendors, and site visitors alike.

The Multi-Directional Nature of Trust

Building trust isn’t just a outward-facing marketing effort aimed at buyers. True brand trust is holistic; it radiates in every direction across your entire organization:

• For Prospects & Site Visitors: They need to feel that your information is honest, your user experience is seamless, and your solutions genuinely address their pain points.

• For Customers & Constituents: They want proof that you deliver on your promises and stand by your product long after the transaction is complete.

• For Employees: They must feel valued, supported, and trusted to do their best work without micro-management.

• For Vendors & Partners: They rely on clear communication, fairness, and reliability.

When every touchpoint reinforces integrity, you create a self-sustaining ecosystem of goodwill.

3 Actionable Ways Brands Build Sustainable Trust

How do you transition from chasing vanity metrics to earning true currency? It requires intentional strategy across culture, content, and customer experience.

1. Develop and Promote Meaningful Content That Lifts People Up

Your content strategy shouldn't just be about ranking for keywords; it should be about serving your audience. Shift your focus from “How do we get people to buy?” to “How do we help people succeed?”

When you publish educational, encouraging, and actionable content that lifts people up, you establish your authority and show that your primary goal is delivering value.

2. Showcase Authentic Stories of Transformation

Case studies shouldn't read like clinical white papers, and testimonials shouldn't sound like generic marketing fluff. Share the genuine human stories behind your work. Highlight where your customers started, the hurdles they faced, and how working together led to a true transformation. Real human results build immediate social proof.

3. Lead with Internal Trust (Top-Down Empowerment)

External trust is impossible if internal trust is broken. A CEO and executive team must genuinely believe in building up and trusting their employees.

When leadership trusts team members to make autonomous decisions, solve problems creatively, and take care of clients without jumping through bureaucratic hoops, two things happen:

• Employees are happier, more loyal, and deeply engaged.

• Clients and prospects experience faster, warmer, and more genuine interactions.

When you trust your team, your team makes it easy for the market to trust your brand.

The Long-Term Win

In a market crowded with noise and short-term tactics, trust stands out. It creates pricing power, lowers customer acquisition costs, drives referrals, and protects your brand during tough economic cycles.

Stop measuring success solely by the number of clicks on a screen. Start measuring success by the depth of trust you build every day.

Zigging Instead Of Zagging

“In a busy marketplace, not standing out is the same as being invisible.”

— Seth Godin

Most companies treat competitive research like a blueprint to copy. They spend weeks analyzing what the "industry leaders" are doing, only to mirror their playbook word for word, feature for feature, and discount for discount.

That isn't strategy. That's just blending into the background noise.

Real competitive research isn't about figuring out how to play the same game 5% better. It’s about spotting where the entire crowd is rushing so you can turn around and head in the exact opposite direction.

When you stop obsessing over low retail prices and product spec sheets, and instead focus on the people you serve and why you do what you do, standing out becomes completely natural.

Here is what zigging actually looks like in the real world when everyone else is zagging:

Trading Automated Efficiency for Real Humanity:

While every competitor in the service space is rushing to hide behind AI chatbots, automated phone trees, and self-checkout counters to trim overhead, one local repair company did the exact opposite. They put a warm, real-life human on line one who answers by the second ring. Why? Because their core mission is relieving anxiety for stressed-out homeowners in an emergency. Hearing a calm, empathetic voice doesn't just resolve a service call, it completely changes a customer's day.

Replacing High-Gloss Sales Pitches with Kitchen-Table Honesty:

Instead of sending high-pressure salespeople with glossy brochures and limited-time price cuts, a home restoration team started sending grounded technicians who sit down at the kitchen table, listen, and share real stories about how they helped neighbors through the exact same situation. They don't push product features; they build genuine relationships rooted in trust.

Competing on price is a race to the bottom, and product features can be copied overnight. But nobody can copy why you exist or how much you care.

Your "Why" isn't a clever slogan. It's your commitment to making someone's life easier, safer, or brighter.

Your "Why" positively impacts lives by treating customers like human beings rather than transaction numbers on a spreadsheet.

When your entire business is built around lifting people up, you don't need to go with the flow. You become the breath of fresh air everyone's been looking for. ☕️

Share The Positive Vibes

Scroll through LinkedIn for five minutes and what do you see?

A tidal wave of polished ad campaigns, outrage bait, and corporate gobbledygook preaching "disruption" while saying absolutely nothing.
We’ve trained an entire generation of marketers to play on fear, FOMO, and endless interruption. We call it "engagement."

But let’s pause and give ourselves a reality check: Nobody wants to be nagged into buying from you.

Early in my career, back when my office view was cornfields at a Benedictine monastery, I learned a lesson that applies to digital marketing just as much as it does to life: What you put out into the world creates the culture you live in.
If your brand messaging is rooted in cynicism, anxiety, or high-pressure noise, that’s the energy you bring to your market.

But when a brand chooses to spread genuine positivity, real human stories, and actual value?

✨ You stop competing for temporary clicks and start building actual loyalty.
✨ You lift your audience up instead of dragging them down.
✨ You move the needle for your bottom line by simply being remarkable.

Spreading positivity isn't fluff. It isn't rainbow-and-unicorns corporate speak. It’s smart, battle-tested strategy to connect with real humans.

Words can move mountains. Choose messaging that leaves your industry better than you found it.

Grab a cup of Coffee today and ask yourself: Is your brand adding light to the feed, or just adding to the noise? ☕

On Being Remarkable…

Most brands are playing it so safe they are practically invisible.

They pump out slick, high-gloss campaigns packed with corporate gobbledygook and expect people to care. But today's consumers have a finely tuned B.S. detector. They don't want another sanitized echo in their feed. They want something real. They want something remarkable.

As Seth Godin so perfectly put it:

"By definition, remarkable things get remarked upon."

If nobody is talking about your brand, it isn't because your ad budget is too low. It's because your messaging didn't give them a single reason to pause, care, or share.

In a world of 5-second attention spans, you have to dig deep and stop being an echo. Here is how you craft campaigns that actually break out of the box:

▪ Ditch the Corporate Gobbledygook

Drop the lawyer-speak, buzzwords, and sanitized marketing jargon. Speak like a real human talking to another real human. Real recognizes real. If your campaign copy sounds like it was vetted by a compliance committee to ensure zero personality, scrap it and start over.

▪ Make Your Consumer the Hero (Not Your Brand)

Stop shouting about how great your features are. Nobody cares about your product until they see how it solves their problem or sparks joy. Shift the spotlight. Make your customer the hero of the story, and position your brand as the catalyst.

▪ Stop Interrupting, Start Inspiring

Nobody likes being nagged, spammed, or interrupted. If your strategy relies on forcing your way into someone's space, you've already lost. Create work that pulls people in, makes them smile, and evokes a genuine emotional reaction.

▪ Have the Courage to Have a Point of View

Safe messaging is a slow death for a brand. Trying to appeal to everyone guarantees you will stand out to no one. Share a bold truth, take a stance, and embrace a clear perspective. The right audience will respect you for it.

▪ Ensure the Inside Matches the Outside

You can't fake remarkable. If your campaign makes big promises that your internal culture or customer experience can't deliver, the chinks in your brand armor will show immediately. Truly remarkable marketing starts with a genuine, human-first culture on the inside.

The Bottom Line:

Stop trying to blend in with the noise. In a marketplace starving for authenticity, the brand brave enough to be human, bold, and unapologetically remarkable is the one that wins.

The Content Conundrum

“Without strategy, content is just stuff, and the world has enough stuff.”
— Arjun Basu

Read that again.

Every single day, LinkedIn feeds are flooded with blogs, videos, graphics, and hot takes that do absolutely nothing for a business’s bottom line.

Why? Because too many brands confuse activity with accomplishment.
Posting just to stay "active" or throwing random content at the wall to see what sticks isn’t digital marketing. It’s gambling with your time, attention, and budget.

Before you write another caption or design another graphic, pause and ask your team these four questions:

Who is this specifically for? (Hint: If the answer is "everyone," it's for no one.)
What real problem does this solve for them?
What clear action do we want them to take next?
How does this piece directly support our broader business goals?

If you can’t answer those four questions in five seconds, don't hit publish.
Content without strategy is just expensive noise. Content with strategy is a revenue engine.

Stop adding to the pile of stuff. Start building a system that drives actual results.

Fixing The Glitch

If your brand is super duper excited to get to work with a new agency on that razzle-dazzle #marketingcampaign, it's always a really good idea to hit the pause button and take a deep look at the inside reality of your company. Does it match the persona that's about to be unleashed to the public? Is the #culture that you think you have really the culture that you do have? Is your team happy and well adjusted? Will they actually do all of the things that you're telling the world that your company will deliver? No matter how shiny and pretty the new campaign is, if your internal reality can't deliver on the promise, OR if your target consumers smell any bullshit, your brand can be screwed.

How to fix the glitch(es):

• If you have any toxicity in the organization, it's time to cut it out, like, now.

• Communicate with your team members with as much #transparency as humanly possible.

• Some organizations will actually hire a secret shopper, I'd rather you trust in your team members enough to deliver the goods. If you have any doubts, set them free.

• Build a safe and open door policy to address any real team member concerns, and here's the trick, act on their concerns and be their best advocate.

• Ask your customers about their experience, not just a survey, a real conversation, and LISTEN.

• Ensure that you have #customerservice protocols and procedures in place to handle customer service challenges like human beings, and not like robots.

I can't emphasize enough how important it is to get your organization shored up before you pull the #marketing trigger. It may not be easy and you may find yourself having to make some really difficult decisions for the good of the brand, but it must be done. Thanks for reading and sharing.

One Trick Marketing Ponies.

“Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won’t come in.”

— Issac Asimov

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We all have a lens that we look at things through. Things like philosophies, convictions, religion, politics, ethics, etc. and that’s what makes the well-rounded world go ’round. It’s the hodge-podge of thought, the situations that have brought us to how we think and see the sun that help shape the world. Sometimes, though, we get tunnel vision. One thing, and one thing only is, in our world, the only way. The only path to whatever, the only way to think, the only way others should think and when those ‘others’ don’t see it our way, they are obviously wrong. Dangerous for certain.

When it comes to digital marketing, one-sided thinking will lead to failure, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but without a doubt, soon. Dirty lenses or lenses that aren’t even capable of being cleaned to let the ‘light come in’ turn into archaic thinking, and ultimately, lead to a catastrophic failure. It’s ok to have theories, it’s ok to have philosophies, but in the marketing world, there are many ways to skin the proverbial cat and honestly, the best way to skin the cat is through utilizing a wide variety of methods, a holistic approach if you will.

Meet The One Trick Marketing Pony

The one trick digital marketing pony knew about one way to do things, fifteen glorious years ago. Back in the day, this worked or back in the day, our marketing team scored hits because we simply focused on one angle. Guess what? the Internet changes EVERY day. The methods, what works, what doesn’t work. The algorithms, the attention span of a hungry digital populous, the platforms that we as a society use to post cat photos and spread proud dad photos of our kiddos. Marketing folks who rely on the way we used to do it are destined to fail. Marketers who cannot clean their marketing lenses end up in a brand tail-spin and look for the next people to blame for its failure.

The one trick digital marketing pony can’t continue to grow. The digital marketing space is fluid, as fluid as can be and certain lenses just don’t work anymore, and will probably not work again in the future. As long as we as a society keep changing the way we pay attention to stimulus and outside influences, the marketing folks worth their salt will continue to adjust strategy on the fly. They remain committed to learning, they remain OPEN to new ideas and concepts. They try, they fail, they try again and win. They rely on multiple strategies in order to skin the cat properly and cover all of the bases. They simply continue to clean their lenses.

Thanks for reading, and for cleaning your lenses from time to time.

Take care and thanks for sharing.
@TomJelneck

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The Archer In The Fog.

I've been listening to a great book lately, The 1-Page Marketing Plan by Allan Dib. Allan is basically laying out his approach to how businesses can create a remarkable easy to follow marketing plan that actually does something for your bottom line. One of my favorite analogies that he used to describe people who don't take the time to perform market research and profile out their target consumer is an Archer In The Fog.

The archer in the fog can't obviously see a damned thing when he's trying to hit his mark.

Successful marketers take the time to get to know their audience. They understand that not everyone is their intended client / customer. I've asked so many business marketing departments who their target audience is and the response that I often get sends shivers down my spine. "Everyone." We can sell to everyone. But can you? Can you realistically compete against Amazon? Can you compete with Wal Mart? Do you have the funds to compete with Apple who can spend millions upon millions to transmit their message over and over? You can not. So stop trying.
 

The Niche

Let's take for an example an aesthetic medical practice that performs botox and other cosmetic procedures. The ambitious doctor opens her practice and is out to rule the world. She decides she wants to market her services to EVERYONE within a 20 mile radius. She thinks to herself, "they all need my services." Here's the problem. No they don't. Here's the other problem. There are 500 OTHER aesthetic practices within the 20 mile radius all trying to do the same damned thing as her. She needs to niche. What if she targeted pregnant moms that are looking for cosmetic work? It's a solid niche filled with resources. There are plenty of newly pregnant moms. And even better, they ALL talk to each other and learn from each other. Why not create your marketing campaigns around THEM? Give them resources, support them, be there for them, and oh yeah, sell to them when they need your cosmetic services.

The argument is always, well, I'm losing out on a huge market share by niching, but now you're the archer without the fog. You're targeting CLEARLY and acquiring your targets. Once you own this space, if you have the capacity, figure out another niche and market the crap out of that. FOCUS and you'll win.

The Human Factor

All too often marketing is all about the products that people sell. "We sell the best damned reciprocating saws," or, "Our computers are made with 90 gigowatt plasma induced gingerbread flux capacitors." Yes, this CAN be important to some, but the problem is, you're not solving anyone's problems by dwelling on the specs of your product. Have you ever heard Apple Computer tell you in a commercial how powerful their core processors are on their iMacs? They sell by being human. They sell by selling a lifestyle, an attitude, a sense of belonging to something larger and great. Take a look at your marketing, your ad copy, your website, your messaging. Is it product centric or people centric? If you find yourself always talking about how wonderful your company is, or just how awesome your products are, odds are, you're turning people away. Make it about them, and seize the day. Make it about them and come out of the fog. Shoot with clarity and reap the benefits down the road.
 

Get Niche. Get Rich.

“Everyone is NOT your customer.”
- Seth Godin

I'll always ask prospects this question: "Who is your market?" The response I get way more than I'd like: "EVERYONE, everyone is our market. We can sell this to everyone." Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

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Reality Check.

The Internet is hard. It's huge. It's getting bigger and bigger every day, which means that your target consumer of EVERYONE is getting distracted in such a way that you can't even imagine. There is no possible way that your business, UNLESS you are Pepsi, Apple, Amazon, etc., can reach out to effectively grab the attention of this audience and make a difference. The bottom line, your company and its marketing efforts will die way before you get any real traction and grab any market share.

You MUST Niche.

Take a look at your products and / or service. Sure, its possible that everyone could have a use for what you're flipping, but as we've discovered, you can't really market effectively to everyone. Choose a more niche audience, perhaps it's pregnant moms, maybe it's a segment of the population that's obsessed with Banjos or coffee, find a niche of people that would love your product or service and BE THERE. Connect with that target audience, show them how you know them, get to know their language and speak it, speak it well.

Stop Marketing Your Products.

Start marketing the essence of your company. If your company doesn't have a personality, get one. Be you. Bring it to life. People DON'T want to buy from a faceless, boring corporation. They want to buy from a company that speaks to them. A company with conviction and possibly even values, a company that isn't afraid to be creative and NOT speak corporate speak. A company that has balls. Stop being SAFE, start being alive and not afraid to push some boundaries. Don't, of course, be a schmuck, but be alive.

Getting Ready To Get Ready.

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What are you waiting for? Waiting for your marketing messaging to be perfect? Good luck. The people who win at Marketing are the wins who go for it. They fail. Sometimes it sucks. Sometimes they crush it right out of the gate. The point is, you'll NEVER FREAKING KNOW if you don't get going, NOW. Ready? GO. Sure, you have to plan, sure you have to create and YES, you have to measure, but I see so many companies getting ready to get ready and they NEVER pull the trigger.

Maybe it's fear of failure, maybe it's laziness, maybe it's simply not in their wheel-house. If you can't get your marketing rocking and rolling, call a pro who can help. In fact, if you know enough to be dangerous about social media, SEO, content marketing, etc., you SHOULD hire someone who does it for a living and knows WAY more than how to be dangerous. This is NOT an area to skimp on or attempt to do it yourself.
 

The Bottom Line.

You NEED to stand out. You need to be remarkable. You need to sending different vibes than all of your competitors. You need to be amazing in your own right and share that amazing with the rest of the NICHE that you've chosen.

Thanks for reading and sharing with a friend,
@TomJelneck